|Waje and Her Lovely Daughter|
Are you a single mum left saddled with responsibility of bringing up a child alone? Being a single mum is not the end of the world, the mere fact that you had your baby out of wedlock or by circumstance does not make you less a woman. As a single mother, you are still loving and caring for that child till date – “You are a Super Mum”.
What people say about you does not matter, what really counts is what you think of yourself. Some women out there do not deserve to be called Mothers. Overtime, I have come realize that, it does not necessarily mean that only those who bear forth a child biologically that deserves to be called mothers “NO”. Bringing forth a child into this world is one thing, and taking proper care responsibility of that child is another. Read On
HAVING A CHILD OUTSIDE MARRIAGE CAN NOT CHANGE YOUR DESTINY
The single facts that you had a child before marriage does not make you a different person neither, will it change who you really are or what you ought to become in the future. Learn from these celebrities and you too can be celebrated.
|Clarion Chukwura and Her Talented Son|
It is true that at that point in time, you saw it as a mistake, but I bet you it is in the plan – A Blessing in Disguise. All you need do is change your orientation, come out strong, be focused and the sky is your stepping stone.
|Genevieve Nnaji and Her Pretty Daughter|
What good will it do you hiding in your own shadow or standing in the crowd? When you are supposed to be at the top addressing the crowd. Hey dear, you deserve a better life, you are young and vibrant. Put your past behind you, you still have what it takes to pursue and live your dream. Show that baby some love and you will see how love will help you pull through.
Why deprive an innocent child the excesses and freedom that comes with being a child? It is an unpleasant experience for any child growing up without love. It is absolutely true you had your baby at the most inconvenient time in your life, things happen for a reason you know? All these things make you a better person, you are amazing, talented, beautiful and naturally endowed. Look back and you will be amazed how far you have come, far better than your peers and those who scorned at you in the past.
The future counts a lot. Children are a blessing to their parents, looking at your child tells how beautiful your future will be. Give that child a good upbringing (foundation) and you will be proud to say “This is my child”
NOTE: For those born outside wedlock, whatever the situation might be growing; be grateful. Your mum took a tough decision giving you life, it takes a kind heart to take such a tough decision and that should not be taken for granted.
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